So turns out my MIL is not moving in with her parents after all. I guess grandpa changed his mind, which fine, but like, would have been nice to know MUCH sooner. like before we moved in with her. But whatever. So Tyi told her that we were going to move in april when her lease is up since we didn't want to live with her long term to begin with. A lot was going on at that point, and i wasn't part of the conversation because i won't talk to her about things because of just how unreasonable she is. So i imagine Tyi said it fairly calmly and she decided to escalate the situation and said we had a week. Then about an hour after that whole thing, she messaged Tyi and said she was just going to move into a one bedroom place or move to Chicago, which is where her second oldest lives with his 2 kids (her first 2 grandbabies). So we'll see what happens.

So getting into what drama was taking place... A little background information, Tyi and i both have long hair and we shed, a LOT. And the thing with shedding is you don't really realize it's happening when it's happening. So the carpet tends to have a good amount of hair in it. So MIL decided that she was going to use my vacuum to vacuum it up. Normally that wouldn't be an issue but she didn't ask and then followed up with asking how we vacuum anything when it doesn't work right. Well it wasn't working right because she didn't clean out the roller brush and it was full of hair (not just ours, mind you, cause she lives here too and goes back and forth between her room and kitchen by way of the carpeted living room. so her hair was in it too.) So (us) Tyi asking her not to use our things or touch our things without asking us first turned into a big fight between the two of them. Idk why but the big dramatic fights always seem to center around a stupid vacuum. So during that fight he asked her if she had a roommate if she would just use and touch her roommate's things without asking and she indignantly said she would. I'm just so tired of her drama, really. Like, we keep to ourselves and keep the common areas clean (aside from our hallway, but that's mostly just stray hairs that you can't see anyways unless you're on the floor) and we're respectful of her space and her things and she just does not extend the same courtesy to us and it's frustrating.

There's more with the fight that they had, i just don't know anything because i was in the office with the door closed talking to my mom when it was happening. Oh, and the reason i was talking to my mom is because MIL had messaged her on facebook trying to get my mom to say something to me. But, my mom being amazing, told her to ask me about the vacuum and how i use it to vacuum or what i do with it when it doesn't work :) (it never EVER has gotten to the point that MIL got it to, btw. MIL just never cleaned it before using it and vacuumed the entire living room and the hallway until it wouldn't suck anymore because of the wrapped hair.) My mom Figures that the only reason MIL would be contacting her is to talk (complain) about me, and really unless it's asking about what to get me for a gift or something, anything that goes on between me and MIL should be handled by me, Tyi and MIL.

The only real good thing this last month and a half is she's for the most part been keeping the AC at 76 and it's been pretty great actually. And when she does bump it to 77 or the occasional 78, we are able to almost immediately catch it and put it back to 76 (or 77 for an hour and then back to 76) without any issues.