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Donator — Winchester Posted 7 years ago ( 2017/10/30 19:13:54 )


Last year, my mother had what looked like flu. At some point, she had trouble breathing and I called for the doctor to come by. She was send to the hospital and, within a few days, they told us that she had lung cancer. They decided to give chemo a try, but big chance was that she wouldn't make the end of the week.
After a lot of chemo, she heard in November last year (Nov 23 (my grandmother's birthday)) that the tumour in her lung was really small and the other tumours were so small, they could hardly see them.
End of January, she got another scan and on my birthday (Feb 2nd), she heard it was back. She got chemo again, but in May, they told her it wasn't effective and that there was no more treatment possible for her.

Fast forward to a few weeks ago:
Everyone around us got the flu, myself included. My mother also got the flu, but slowly got better. Until this weekend. Saturday, she was feeling worse and worse and had trouble breathing. I called for a doctor again and they said it wasn't infection or sorts. They gave her morphine, to ease everything a bit.
Yesterday, she still has trouble breathing and a tummy ache. The doctor just came and examined her. Her liver is enlarged and, because she still has trouble breathing, she's going to get an IV for the morphine.
The doctor also said it won't take long now before it will be over for her.

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Donator — 0% Edible Posted 7 years ago ( 2017/10/30 19:17:14 )
I'm so sorry dude.
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Donator — Winchester Posted 7 years ago ( 2017/10/30 19:25:36 )


@Another Movie Addict: thanks
Now it's just, basically, waiting for the moment

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Voltie — moo Posted 7 years ago ( 2017/10/30 20:22:32 )
Sorry to hear that this situation is happening to you. It's very sad. Stay strong man.
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Donator — Winchester Posted 7 years ago ( 2017/10/30 20:25:32 )


@Moossey: I'll try but no promises

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Voltie — Baby Yoda Posted 7 years ago ( 2017/10/30 20:36:19 )


I'm so sorry :(

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Donator — Winchester Posted 7 years ago ( 2017/10/30 23:30:53 )


@Teemo: thanks
She got an extra dose of morphine and is completely out right now. She some times opens her eyes, but you can see she doesnt notice anything.

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Donator — She/her Posted 6 years ago ( 2017/10/31 00:58:15 )


@Tuijp: I'm so sorry to hear that. Think of this past year as another year you had with your mom. She could have died last Nov, and that would have been worse.

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Donator — Winchester Posted 6 years ago ( 2017/10/31 01:21:27 )


@Totalanimefan: when she got the news, they didn't think she would make the end of the week and that was last year June.
I'm grateful for the extra year we got, but it all went fast in the last week. It went from a bit ill to this state in a few days.

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Donator — She/her Posted 6 years ago ( 2017/10/31 01:29:23 )


@Tuijp: Yeah of course. It sucks when it's quick, but just try to hold on to the good.

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Donator — Winchester Posted 6 years ago ( 2017/10/31 02:14:57 )


@Totalanimefan: I will, in a while. This period just sucks. She only hears half of what I say and that is only after I wake her up and say it loud. Even then she doesn't fully get it.

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Donator — She/her Posted 6 years ago ( 2017/10/31 02:38:43 )


@Tuijp: It's just good that you are there for her right now. :(

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Donator — Winchester Posted 6 years ago ( 2017/10/31 02:46:31 )


@Totalanimefan: wouldn't want it any other way

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Donator — She/her Posted 6 years ago ( 2017/10/31 03:11:46 )


@Tuijp: You are a great son.

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Donator — Winchester Posted 6 years ago ( 2017/10/31 03:20:11 )


@Totalanimefan: I have kitty with me to support me. Seriously, he hasn't left my side all evening. He just laid down at my feet in bed.

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Donator — She/her Posted 6 years ago ( 2017/10/31 03:22:28 )


@Tuijp: Aww good kitty!

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Voltie — Burnt Posted 6 years ago ( 2017/10/31 04:07:56 )
I'm so sorry. Stay strong. Just continue to he with her while you can
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Donator Posted 6 years ago ( 2017/10/31 12:20:02 )
D: - hugs my bro-
Your mom was a motherfucking fighter. Hope she goes with not much pain.
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Donator — Winchester Posted 6 years ago ( 2017/10/31 14:46:16 )


She has pain now, but when I ask where, she says she doesn't know. She is also asking for help, but not to me. Shes staring up, searching for something.
I gave her an extra shot of morphine, hoping it will ease things.

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Donator — She/Her Posted 6 years ago ( 2017/10/31 15:33:18 )
@Tuijp: I am so sorry
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