Would you consider it intrusive or even secretive?
I guess it really depends who is pming.
And so for those I would ask: Do you prefer pming or messaging in groups?
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Mostly prefer PMing but depends on who I'm messaging to, if it's more than one person then messaging in group might be convenient for me (in my opinion).
Mostly prefer PMing but depends on who I'm messaging to, if it's more than one person then messaging in group might be convenient for me (in my opinion).
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honestly i think its fine. I get talked over and ignored in groups so its nice to have someone pay attention to me LOL
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I never really pm people, because im very shy when talking to people.
When i do get PM'd i always assume I've done wrong lol.
But usually that's not the case and is usually something someone wants to ask me about or inform me about.
Idk if it's just an anxiety thing with me but in the past I used to pm people to discuss rp's.
tho now it's just a tool I never use. :vanora_sweat:
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I never really pm people, because im very shy when talking to people.
When i do get PM'd i always assume I've done wrong lol.
But usually that's not the case and is usually something someone wants to ask me about or inform me about.
Idk if it's just an anxiety thing with me but in the past I used to pm people to discuss rp's.
tho now it's just a tool I never use. :vanora_sweat:
@colan: i dont mind pm's i dont think its weird at all
I think it’s fine. I don’t think it’s weird.
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i mean i personally tend to go for comments on profile if i just wanna pay a compliment or say hi, and mostly use pm's for stuff like sorting out threads or other stuff that i want to be easy to revert back to later
i don't know if i think it's intrusive, but i do get somewhat... anxious seeing the notifications on my inbox rather than ping's for some reason?? maybe it reminds me too much of emails or something, hahah ; u;
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Depends entirely on context. But generally it's not weird unless you make it weird. Personally I do better in one-on-one conversation than trying to pay attention and respond to a group discussion, but sometimes one-on-ones leave me not knowing what to say next and conversations may die more easily. Some people get a little anxiety over PMs, I guess because they can feel confrontational if they seem to come out of nowhere? But it is easier to actually make friends that way IMO.
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