Moodyb's posts
Posted in Living Alone
Posted 2 years ago
『 Moody Says. . .』
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@Aisukohi: haha yes I really love Yellow so I'm so hyped to decorate.
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@Aisukohi: haha yes I really love Yellow so I'm so hyped to decorate.
Posted in Living Alone
Posted 2 years ago
『 Moody Says. . .』
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@JosieOpal: honestly, the place i currently live is much harder to clean because it's so big.
So moving into a 1 bedroom apartment which will be much smaller, i feel I would clean it much better.
though at home we also have to pack away things in case my family does move at some point.
I will probably learn to drive otherwise i won't really know how i'd even get my own groceries XD
I don't plan to accept roommates. For now i just rather live alone and people give me major anxiety.
@blue: I've browsed some apartments but nothing really in my actual area looks good lolol.
only good apartments are within the area that gets tornados and is super far away. so i'll just have to check once in a while.
but i won't be moving for a good...4 maybe 5 years i presume.
But since the market keeps getting worse its a bit hard to have a certain amount of money as a goal since 1 bedrooms varies from $1400-1800 right now.
yeah i don't really want to have a roommate. Only roommate i want is a cat XD
@Aisukohi: Thank you! Yeah even at home i think the only furniture i have is a desk but it needs to be replaced as it's too short for me.
But i'm looking forward to getting furniture and adding it to my home.
I mostly want bright color furniture to make it feel more like me.
@purpsy: thank you i appreciate it and hope it works out for you too.
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@JosieOpal: honestly, the place i currently live is much harder to clean because it's so big.
So moving into a 1 bedroom apartment which will be much smaller, i feel I would clean it much better.
though at home we also have to pack away things in case my family does move at some point.
I will probably learn to drive otherwise i won't really know how i'd even get my own groceries XD
I don't plan to accept roommates. For now i just rather live alone and people give me major anxiety.
@blue: I've browsed some apartments but nothing really in my actual area looks good lolol.
only good apartments are within the area that gets tornados and is super far away. so i'll just have to check once in a while.
but i won't be moving for a good...4 maybe 5 years i presume.
But since the market keeps getting worse its a bit hard to have a certain amount of money as a goal since 1 bedrooms varies from $1400-1800 right now.
yeah i don't really want to have a roommate. Only roommate i want is a cat XD
@Aisukohi: Thank you! Yeah even at home i think the only furniture i have is a desk but it needs to be replaced as it's too short for me.
But i'm looking forward to getting furniture and adding it to my home.
I mostly want bright color furniture to make it feel more like me.
@purpsy: thank you i appreciate it and hope it works out for you too.
Posted in Living Alone
Posted 2 years ago
『 Moody Says. . .』
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@Aisukohi: yeah. I just don't want him to think I'm moving out as I hate him as I don't. I just need space from them lol
ahh okie. I will definitely keep that in mind!
thanks so much. means a lot to me for all the advice you've given me.
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@Aisukohi: yeah. I just don't want him to think I'm moving out as I hate him as I don't. I just need space from them lol
ahh okie. I will definitely keep that in mind!
thanks so much. means a lot to me for all the advice you've given me.
Posted in Living Alone
Posted 2 years ago
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@Aisukohi: it's more so, do I order it before or after I move in I'm stuck on. like...I have no idea.
probably my dad and his friends can help that is if he won't hate my for moving out lol
I just feel guilty for wanting to move out.
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@Aisukohi: it's more so, do I order it before or after I move in I'm stuck on. like...I have no idea.
probably my dad and his friends can help that is if he won't hate my for moving out lol
I just feel guilty for wanting to move out.
Posted in Living Alone
Posted 2 years ago
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@Aisukohi: there is so much I don't know but I'm not sure with furniture when moving in since I'll have to get a new bed and such.
that's all I can think of right now lol
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@Aisukohi: there is so much I don't know but I'm not sure with furniture when moving in since I'll have to get a new bed and such.
that's all I can think of right now lol
Posted in Living Alone
Posted 2 years ago
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@Aisukohi: yeah I'll have to look into those when I do move out.moving won't be anytime soon since I would prefer to just slowly prepare and work hard. there is a lot I feel I am going to need to figure out first.
insurance definitely will need. the one I am on tho doesn't cover dental or vision hardly lol.
I plan to get pet insurance.
@neon: yeah I don't make enough to even pay half of rent. thus is just a kind of long term goal and how I can prepare for it.
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@Aisukohi: yeah I'll have to look into those when I do move out.moving won't be anytime soon since I would prefer to just slowly prepare and work hard. there is a lot I feel I am going to need to figure out first.
insurance definitely will need. the one I am on tho doesn't cover dental or vision hardly lol.
I plan to get pet insurance.
@neon: yeah I don't make enough to even pay half of rent. thus is just a kind of long term goal and how I can prepare for it.
Posted in Living Alone
Posted 2 years ago
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@neon: unfortunately it's highly unlikely for me to room with anyone. I only know family and I'm trying to get away from them ot at least set up boundaries. I know it won't fix everything but I just want to not feel miserable every morning or suddenly having to cook 2-3 different dinners with no notice and getting super overwhelmed XD
I'm not planning to move until income is more steady so this is not happening in the next few Years.
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@neon: unfortunately it's highly unlikely for me to room with anyone. I only know family and I'm trying to get away from them ot at least set up boundaries. I know it won't fix everything but I just want to not feel miserable every morning or suddenly having to cook 2-3 different dinners with no notice and getting super overwhelmed XD
I'm not planning to move until income is more steady so this is not happening in the next few Years.
Posted in Living Alone
Posted 2 years ago
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So over the course of the week, I've been considering to eventually move out to live alone. I won't be moving out for a long while due to i'm still figuring out job stuff[freelance artist]. But I just lately have been getting really irritated with the negativity, pessimistic, and judgmental attitudes
of my family. Don't get my wrong, I love them very much and they are not terrible people.
That being said, I think I've reached my limit. I'm almost 30 and I have never been independent. I can't drive, and I have a mountain of mental illnesses.
Not even my family i feel believes i could live alone, and living alone does scare me. But, I need my space. I share a bedroom and have all my life, and i feel my views with my dad's religion i just don't have the same views or agree with a lot of it and it feels it's crammed down my throat at every moment. I can't even say i want to watch a movie without him wanting to watch something religion related.
I just feel like im suffocating and currently my family's household is not at all ADHD/neurodivergent friendly. They know of my ADHD and my sister knows i am possibly autistic, but no one really keeps in mind of my mental health and limitations or they just seem to forget it all the time.
I constantly have to put aside my wants or things I enjoy doing just to do chores very often like cooking dinner and i honestly feel miserable.
I suppose what i want is advice for moving out in a conflicting household?
I don't know the first thing at even being an adult let alone independent adult.
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So over the course of the week, I've been considering to eventually move out to live alone. I won't be moving out for a long while due to i'm still figuring out job stuff[freelance artist]. But I just lately have been getting really irritated with the negativity, pessimistic, and judgmental attitudes
of my family. Don't get my wrong, I love them very much and they are not terrible people.
That being said, I think I've reached my limit. I'm almost 30 and I have never been independent. I can't drive, and I have a mountain of mental illnesses.
Not even my family i feel believes i could live alone, and living alone does scare me. But, I need my space. I share a bedroom and have all my life, and i feel my views with my dad's religion i just don't have the same views or agree with a lot of it and it feels it's crammed down my throat at every moment. I can't even say i want to watch a movie without him wanting to watch something religion related.
I just feel like im suffocating and currently my family's household is not at all ADHD/neurodivergent friendly. They know of my ADHD and my sister knows i am possibly autistic, but no one really keeps in mind of my mental health and limitations or they just seem to forget it all the time.
I constantly have to put aside my wants or things I enjoy doing just to do chores very often like cooking dinner and i honestly feel miserable.
I suppose what i want is advice for moving out in a conflicting household?
I don't know the first thing at even being an adult let alone independent adult.
Posted in Learning digital art
Posted 2 years ago
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been doing digital art for over a decade and it's also my job.
but it all depends what you want out of it.
if you want to draw well and such, studying the fundamentals is essential.
if not overall just have fun, figure out what brushes you like, what how to use your program etc.
how long to get the hang of it depends on how often you practice but you can't ever master it. you can always learn more. it usually takes years to get good at a skill
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been doing digital art for over a decade and it's also my job.
but it all depends what you want out of it.
if you want to draw well and such, studying the fundamentals is essential.
if not overall just have fun, figure out what brushes you like, what how to use your program etc.
how long to get the hang of it depends on how often you practice but you can't ever master it. you can always learn more. it usually takes years to get good at a skill
Posted in 2023 Goals/resolutions
Posted 2 years ago
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@Totalanimefan: yeah, gonna need to work hard on improvement this year
to afford it.
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@Totalanimefan: yeah, gonna need to work hard on improvement this year
to afford it.
Posted in 2023 Goals/resolutions
Posted 2 years ago
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@Totalanimefan: will do, but not sure how much I'll afford as my main focus is art books which are between $30-50 each.
@macsen191: I completely understand, my mom passed away in 2021. I ended up oversleeping to heal and cope with the grief.
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@Totalanimefan: will do, but not sure how much I'll afford as my main focus is art books which are between $30-50 each.
@macsen191: I completely understand, my mom passed away in 2021. I ended up oversleeping to heal and cope with the grief.
Posted in 2023 Goals/resolutions
Posted 2 years ago
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@Totalanimefan: yeah and it'll be better for my skin as well.
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@Totalanimefan: yeah and it'll be better for my skin as well.
Posted in 2023 Goals/resolutions
Posted 2 years ago
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@Totalanimefan: For me it's not dry skin but an actual skin condition which gets super red, bumpy, etc.
Nope. Facial washes and moisturizers are kinda a toss up. things often flare up my rosacea or lotions from drug stores bother my other skin condition
which will flare that up or make it feel super greasy and oily.
Nothing has worked thus far so i won't be using any drug store type of skin care and going to a self-made small business instead.
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@Totalanimefan: For me it's not dry skin but an actual skin condition which gets super red, bumpy, etc.
Nope. Facial washes and moisturizers are kinda a toss up. things often flare up my rosacea or lotions from drug stores bother my other skin condition
which will flare that up or make it feel super greasy and oily.
Nothing has worked thus far so i won't be using any drug store type of skin care and going to a self-made small business instead.
Posted in 2023 Goals/resolutions
Posted 2 years ago
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@Bonnie: yeah, that makes sense.
I hope it goes well.
@totalanimefan: drugstore options don't actually work for me.
so i can't really use the options they have
due to my skin condition, the options flare it up and make it worse.
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@Bonnie: yeah, that makes sense.
I hope it goes well.
@totalanimefan: drugstore options don't actually work for me.
so i can't really use the options they have
due to my skin condition, the options flare it up and make it worse.