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Not too many fond memories but I think finishing my commission after 4 months
is a good memory. Also going shoe shopping with my dad since i needed new shoes which I love them to pieces!

I haven't really done much, but i'm slowly getting outside more after the pandemic/my knee injury.
I'm also working on managing my weight and trying to shed a few pounds.
I think it is working though. So that's a bonus.
Posted in Living Alone Posted 1 year ago
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@Aisukohi: haha yes I really love Yellow so I'm so hyped to decorate.
Posted in Living Alone Posted 1 year ago
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@JosieOpal: honestly, the place i currently live is much harder to clean because it's so big.
So moving into a 1 bedroom apartment which will be much smaller, i feel I would clean it much better.
though at home we also have to pack away things in case my family does move at some point.

I will probably learn to drive otherwise i won't really know how i'd even get my own groceries XD
I don't plan to accept roommates. For now i just rather live alone and people give me major anxiety.


@blue: I've browsed some apartments but nothing really in my actual area looks good lolol.
only good apartments are within the area that gets tornados and is super far away. so i'll just have to check once in a while.
but i won't be moving for a good...4 maybe 5 years i presume.

But since the market keeps getting worse its a bit hard to have a certain amount of money as a goal since 1 bedrooms varies from $1400-1800 right now.
yeah i don't really want to have a roommate. Only roommate i want is a cat XD


@Aisukohi: Thank you! Yeah even at home i think the only furniture i have is a desk but it needs to be replaced as it's too short for me.
But i'm looking forward to getting furniture and adding it to my home.
I mostly want bright color furniture to make it feel more like me.

@purpsy: thank you i appreciate it and hope it works out for you too.
Posted in Living Alone Posted 1 year ago
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@Aisukohi: yeah. I just don't want him to think I'm moving out as I hate him as I don't. I just need space from them lol

ahh okie. I will definitely keep that in mind!
thanks so much. means a lot to me for all the advice you've given me.
Posted in Living Alone Posted 1 year ago
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@Aisukohi: it's more so, do I order it before or after I move in I'm stuck on. like...I have no idea.
probably my dad and his friends can help that is if he won't hate my for moving out lol

I just feel guilty for wanting to move out.
Posted in Living Alone Posted 1 year ago
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@Aisukohi: there is so much I don't know but I'm not sure with furniture when moving in since I'll have to get a new bed and such.

that's all I can think of right now lol
Posted in Living Alone Posted 1 year ago
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@Aisukohi: yeah I'll have to look into those when I do move out.moving won't be anytime soon since I would prefer to just slowly prepare and work hard. there is a lot I feel I am going to need to figure out first.

insurance definitely will need. the one I am on tho doesn't cover dental or vision hardly lol.

I plan to get pet insurance.

@neon: yeah I don't make enough to even pay half of rent. thus is just a kind of long term goal and how I can prepare for it.
Posted in Living Alone Posted 1 year ago
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@neon: unfortunately it's highly unlikely for me to room with anyone. I only know family and I'm trying to get away from them ot at least set up boundaries. I know it won't fix everything but I just want to not feel miserable every morning or suddenly having to cook 2-3 different dinners with no notice and getting super overwhelmed XD

I'm not planning to move until income is more steady so this is not happening in the next few Years.
Posted in Living Alone Posted 1 year ago
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So over the course of the week, I've been considering to eventually move out to live alone. I won't be moving out for a long while due to i'm still figuring out job stuff[freelance artist]. But I just lately have been getting really irritated with the negativity, pessimistic, and judgmental attitudes
of my family. Don't get my wrong, I love them very much and they are not terrible people.
That being said, I think I've reached my limit. I'm almost 30 and I have never been independent. I can't drive, and I have a mountain of mental illnesses.
Not even my family i feel believes i could live alone, and living alone does scare me. But, I need my space. I share a bedroom and have all my life, and i feel my views with my dad's religion i just don't have the same views or agree with a lot of it and it feels it's crammed down my throat at every moment. I can't even say i want to watch a movie without him wanting to watch something religion related.

I just feel like im suffocating and currently my family's household is not at all ADHD/neurodivergent friendly. They know of my ADHD and my sister knows i am possibly autistic, but no one really keeps in mind of my mental health and limitations or they just seem to forget it all the time.
I constantly have to put aside my wants or things I enjoy doing just to do chores very often like cooking dinner and i honestly feel miserable.
I suppose what i want is advice for moving out in a conflicting household?
I don't know the first thing at even being an adult let alone independent adult.
Posted in January in Review Posted 1 year ago
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@Totalanimefan: hard to say. I'm not super picky though I stay away from creamy soups or potato soups due to bad experience.
Posted in January in Review Posted 1 year ago
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@Totalanimefan: I fir some reason dislike both so I eat warm soup instead lol
Posted in January in Review Posted 1 year ago
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@Totalanimefan: make a cup of noodles, warm up heat back, wear XXL cozy and warm sweaters. XDD
Posted in January in Review Posted 1 year ago
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@Totalanimefan: it snowed just last night.
I can't keep the heater running as my sister is sensitive to heat so it's hard for m to stay warm ;-;
Posted in January in Review Posted 1 year ago
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@Totalanimefan: it's still winter for me.
i just hope my focus is better