Forums General Chit-Chat 2 years ago i made a thread
about how i was going on my first date ever.
and last month i found out i was that dudes other woman lmao.
the entire time i knew him he was living with someone and had kids lmao.
Holy moly!
Whaaaaat??!
What did you do when you found out?
Whaaaaat??!
What did you do when you found out?
Please ping! I get distracted easily.
@Mousy: I found out when the stay at home order first came into motion. So there wasnt anything i could do lol. I cried. on and off for 2 days. I wouldnt say ive healed completely, cause who heals from something like that? but for the most part im fine now.
I'm also in grieving over living a lie, but for half the amount of time.
I am also so so sorry that you are having to feel a pain like this as well.
Sending internet hugs and support
Oh my gosh. I wouldn’t been able to take that heart break. I’m sorry. In the future you can be with a man that only has eyes for you.
Are ya ready, guyz?!
Did his "main" chick know or find out?
Put ya guns awn!
@Sassifrass: That stinks. There's nothing worse than putting your heart out there only for someone to treat it like garbage
@Jolly: i'm sorry you're going through this too.
@Totalanimefan: thank you. yeah, it sucks. i made art pieces during the process of being ignored that week, and ive since painted over them. one of them i just wrote "i hate...." and reasons why lol and that alone healed me so much.
@Kitalpha Hart: yea lmao. she contacted me and was like "how do you know him?" the entire conversation with her was very mature and everything.
@Lilykin: yea. the part that gets me the most is, i knew i deserved better, and i knew he was scummy. but i didnt think he was THAT level of scummy lMAO. like it sucks. in my eyes he was my first love, but for him, i was just a toy lmao
iam sorry to hear about! you will find a nicer dude in future! poor you and poor other woman and kids! such an asshole!
~Pls Ping me~
Nothing fancy to see here!!!
Nothing fancy to see here!!!
@Miss Sandman: thank you. honestly though. and like, he would always send me pics and videos of him and his son and claimed he was his nephew. and that the kids mom was his cousin. like a) i feel dumb for believing that but also b) who fucking lies like that lmao. and thats not even the worst lie i got from him.
Are ya ready, guyz?!
@Sassifrass: so chances are she isn't happy with him for cheating on her, but gets that it wasn't your fault because you didn't know
Put ya guns awn!
@Kitalpha Hart: basically yeah. she says shes gonna leave him when this virus clears up. and even though i dont know her, i highly doubt it. not many people have the strength to step away from someone when they have 2 kids together. kids younger than 3 at that.
@Sassifrass: good for you girl! Own it
@Totalanimefan: thanks! my friend said i cant be fully healed until i i realize it wasnt my fault tho. and it'll take me awhile to believe that. idk. its all hard to explain how i totally feel.
@Sassifrass: she’s right. It wasn’t your fault. He was the one that lied to you for years.
@Totalanimefan: but its my fault i let him back into my life. we originally broke up last may. i got really lonely and sad on vday this year and contacted him again lmao. started dating again a week later.
@Totalanimefan: no. i ended it once i found out i was the other woman. but finding out i was the other woman couldve been avoided if i hadnt ever contacted him on vday lol
hey i'm Jessi.
my friend cnts made the pixel
my friend cnts made the pixel
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Having you as a Voltie would be awesome.