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Donator — 0% Edible Posted 6 years ago ( 2018/08/24 23:14:55 )


Okay so I already put it in the rant thread, but this is really upsetting me. I have no other means of dealing with the annoyance/anger.

So I had this exchange with my ex last night.
'Him:I hate women
Just saying
Me: ...?

Him: Why can't they just have a sign that says interested or not I thought the cause went well. I know I'm jumping to conclusions but she could at least text. I don't wanna text her cause then I seem too desperate am I making any sense?
Me: o.O okay, so she hasn't contacted you yet?

Him: I was texting her a little bit earlier then she said she was making dinner then nothing
Me: Maybe she's busy?

Him: I'm just being paranoid probably'


Boy the woman is probably busy doing her on thing. Not every couple of minutes has to be about you.



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Donator Posted 6 years ago ( 2018/08/25 04:25:07 )
Sheesh!

If that one little action makes him hate women, I'd hate to see what rejection looks like.


Just based on that exchange, I'm glad he's your ex.
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Please ping! I get distracted easily.

Donator — 0% Edible Posted 6 years ago ( 2018/08/25 04:41:32 )


@Mousy: He's been in a deep, wanting to destroy our town, depression from recently being rejected by a coworker. Like took 3 Zoloft at once so he'd feel nothing levels of depressed because she won't date him.

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Donator — She/Her Posted 6 years ago ( 2018/08/25 06:35:06 )
Millet, spilling the tea:

Do you think there is a low key intention that he is trying to make you jealous but show it is failing in hopes of luring you back in?

/I overthink sometimes and this is where my thoughts first went/
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Donator — 0% Edible Posted 6 years ago ( 2018/08/25 13:47:53 )


@Millet: That may be a possibility actually. He was talking about maybe trying to date me again in the future, when my mental health gets better. Lol I told him no. He's like 'well not now obviously', and couldn't believe that I wouldn't change my mind about dating him.

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Voltie — they/them Posted 6 years ago ( 2018/08/25 14:09:24 )
This person has some really serious anger and dependency issues just based on what u said above
He needs the immediate help of a honest to god professional

How old is he?
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Donator — 0% Edible Posted 6 years ago ( 2018/08/25 16:34:56 )


@Kcalb: He's 30. We've known each other for 16-17 years now.

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Donator — She/her Posted 6 years ago ( 2018/08/26 08:59:08 )

I agree with Kcalb. His actions are concerning. :/

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Donator — 0% Edible Posted 6 years ago ( 2018/08/26 10:49:06 )


@Totalanimefan: He's normally very problematic, but recently he's gotten worse.

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Donator — She/her Posted 6 years ago ( 2018/08/26 20:03:50 )

@Another Movie Addict: I’m sorry to hear that. And it’s hard to get people that need it the most to go to therapy too. :(
Just don’t start dating him haha


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Donator — 0% Edible Posted 6 years ago ( 2018/08/27 23:00:50 )


@Totalanimefan: Never again lol. That ship has done set sail and sank.

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Donator — She/her Posted 6 years ago ( 2018/08/27 23:19:57 )

@Another Movie Addict: Good to hear, also your avatar is adorable!

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Donator — 0% Edible Posted 6 years ago ( 2018/08/28 15:03:31 )


@Totalanimefan: Thank you!
And yeah, him and I just really work better as really dysfunctional friends.

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Donator — She/her Posted 6 years ago ( 2018/08/28 16:45:07 )

@Another Movie Addict: Yeah, some times that's the case after a break up. I wasn't able to stay friends with any of my ex's and that's ok to me.

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