I wonder if one of the reasons she has an attitude is cause you're picking up BC for your sister & the pharmacist is the type to judge ppl on that. Even tho bc is not always for bc. >.<That or she's looking down on you because she's a bigot.
Forums General Chit-Chat The pharmacy lady does not like me
I wonder if one of the reasons she has an attitude is cause you're picking up BC for your sister & the pharmacist is the type to judge ppl on that. Even tho bc is not always for bc. >.<That or she's looking down on you because she's a bigot.
Batsy Says. . .
@Zuzu: Even when i pick up mine she's unpleasant.
so I just pick mine up on weekends instead of weekdays now
since i figured out that loop hole.
Sunday someone else was there and was SUPER Nice which was great.
Thats good the lady doesnt work weekends so now you can avoid her. Tho maybe still complain to someone. She might be giving an attitude to others as well, even if she's pleasant to those you've seen her interact with. Batsy Says. . .
@Zuzu: Yeah I might. But idk the whole thing kinda just stressed me out.
But for now I am okay with just picking it up on sundays.
@MoodyBats: sorry to here that, there are some in my town that don't like me either but that is because I went to school with them and they know that I don't like them.
Batsy Says. . .
@Unicorn: For me i don't even get why she doesn't like me.
Every other person i get is nice to me.
so idk if that one woman just thinks i am stupid because i couldn't think of the world "refill."
But i think my sis talked to the same woman today over the phone.
She kinda acts as if she rather be somewhere else.
And the woman wouldn't really know it's my sister's because i've only seen her when i had to get my sister's prescription.
But i just avoid her now and go on weekends.
@MoodyBats: well it is good that you go on the weekends when that lady aint working maybe that job isn't the right job for her.
Batsy Says. . .
@Unicorn: Probably.
so for now just going on the weekends is the perfect way to avoid her.
@MoodyBats: well that is good to hear, it is probably best anyhow.
If you can’t say something nice, Don’t say anything at all!
Millet, spilling the tea: My tactic with these sorts of people is to kill them with kindness. Put them in a position where they should reciprocate kindness.
"Your hair looks so lovely today by the way!" "My gosh, I love your earrings." I go out of my way to make it seem like I have
zero clue of their attitude/can't tell/not affected." Usually squashes any subliminal intimidating games/microaggressions. And sometimes for the positive in the sense they start to treat me /genuinely/ better.
I had this sort of thing happen with a a company I had to work side by side with at a previous job and it seemed they started to dread working with me because I had (politely but directly) corrected their errors. I could tell there was a misunderstanding of intent but it'd be too awkward/unsuccessful to be like 'Hey I could be wrong, but it seems you have a problem with me- could we talk about it'. Something like that for sure would make them feel worse towards me. So the best way to tackle it for me was to go out of my way to squash any preconceptions that I accidentally gave. And it worked! They even started requesting to work with me more after.
the scenario is different but I'm sure the overall tactic should bear some fruit.
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Having you as a Voltie would be awesome.