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Voltie — Moody Posted 9 months ago ( 2023/07/27 23:33:16 )
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@Alexia: yeah i just dont want them to think i am abandoning them.
We've been through a lot the past 12-14 years with my mom's sudden stroke and declining health.
And our relatives are not nice people, so I just don't want them to assume I don't care about them, i just can't live with them anymore.
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Voltie — Moody Posted 9 months ago ( 2023/07/28 01:29:22 )
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@Alexia: Yeah. but im also bad at expressing things into words.
The best thing i might do is write a heart felt note, and wait for their responses when it's time.
As I still want to keep in contact and everything with my family and still have family dinners and such.
I just cannot live with them anymore because i have very bad concentration and i often get yelled at randomly and i just do not want to do that. lol.
I love them but sometimes the negativity is too hard on me and always kinda being the "therapist" in the house. XD
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Voltie — Moody Posted 9 months ago ( 2023/07/28 02:17:20 )
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@Alexia: sounds so nice. i am not seen as an adult. my relatives are pretty heartless.
but i am so thrilled to move out. i even have like my own board of what i want my place to look
and the kind of furniture i want. I'm just so jazzed about it.
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Voltie — Moody Posted 9 months ago ( 2023/07/28 21:33:32 )
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@Alexia: I meant being respected was nice.
my relatives constantly harass my family. and even did so yesterday to the point of tears so we're pretty much done with that
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Voltie — Moody Posted 9 months ago ( 2023/07/29 02:20:32 )
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@Alexia: it's mostly my dad and sister. I blocked them from seeing my artwork online or interacring with me at all. i didnt even give them my new phone number when i got a new phone. but we're at the final straw now. we are constantly berated for not having a traditional life like getting a traditional job, going to college, moving out by age 18, etc.

we are a close family who went through huge traumas together. even when my mom passed they wanted us to just get over it. it's only been a year.
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Donator — Fluffywuff Posted 9 months ago ( 2023/07/31 11:19:40 )

Ugh, I feel this whole post.
I DREAM of the day I can live alone.

*TONS OF HUGS*

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Voltie — Moody Posted 9 months ago ( 2023/08/1 01:15:42 )
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@Kozi: We'll get there one day.
it's hard going from dependent to independent for me.
I have a pretty protective parent so now im learning just to manage on my own.

@Alexia: agreed. quite frankly i think they just don't have empathy for us. at all.
they've been like this even before i was born. always harrassing my family for no reason.
so we're done with it.
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Voltie — Moody Posted 9 months ago ( 2023/08/1 03:09:49 )
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@Alexia: yeah. and no one believes my mental illnesses and thinks you can outgrow ADHD.
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Voltie — Moody Posted 9 months ago ( 2023/08/1 03:28:22 )
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@Alexia: Ikr? When my dad told me she said that i was like "uh...no?" I've had adhd since i was at least 5 or 6.
If i haven't outgrown it at 28, i probably won't. XD
Plus it's genetic as my dad has it.

the nerve of some people.
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