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TLDR; roommate poisoned our dog and illegally kicked us out
My bf and I were living with him for almost a year now because our last house was nasty and my bf was stuck taking care of an adult child unfortunately
Anyway, this house turned out to be much worse or course lol.
He said that we could live there for 2-3yrs, I never asked he offered. He told us not to worry about paying rent just clean up after ourselves and work on getting things together for our future. He actually used to be a great friend we would play DnD with every week or two.
Welp, the house had raccoons in it, mice (oh God it was so many and so much droppings), squirrels, and black mold everywhere. on top of him honestly just being nasty. He never ever cleaned up after himself. He left moldy dishes sit out or in his room / the fridge because he didn't finish the food or rinse it off.
I dealt with it for awhile because we are living there for free and obviously why would I complain. well, it ended up giving me and my bf a lot of health issues. I couldn't clean up after him anymore.
Then, he started bringing girls home. Okay, awesome!! Nope. They're 17/18. He's 28. Many people who are mutual friends started telling us about him sleeping with them underage, him abusing them in school, and that he's dated people barely legal for a while.. we found this out a few months ago and have been doing our best by applying thru indeed every day for multiple jobs. I can't goto the police, because I don't have concrete evidence. He has a vpn on the entire router as well which was super odd given his behavior.. I warned my friends about him though.
Also, he started hitting me with pillows or pulling my hair or touching me or making sexual comments. I was scared. My bf told him to stop, me obviously looking uncomfortable and getting angry.
Everyone was trying to tell the girl he's been dating for a few months about him, about how he hides her on fb, how he cheats on her and says they are poly while she says they aren't, and I feel really bad that she's still with him. There's a lot of dumb stuff i could go on about, but i think yall get the image?
Anyway, my bf landed a really good job!! He starts on the 20th next month though. We told our roommate about this at a party we went (mutual friends bday) and he said he would like to do DnD again. We agreed, whatever, we'll be out of there soon. Dude seemed to be in a good mood, everyone did. He went home, we camped at our friends.
The next day he gives us a note with an "apology". It was him saying he's sorry he doesn't deserve us as friends and we're great people and he loves us, and it was a big rant about how terrible he is. He also sent this to my BFF (different friend than the party) that used to live with him for a bit over messenger and proceeded to block her? I had stayed the night with her. This gave me anxiety.
I come home the next day and relax because my social battery is very drained and I needed a day to recover. I'm sitting in the living room and playing a game on my PC while my bf sits with me, our roommate comes home from work as usual at 7. An hour goes by and he comes out of his room, sits down, and says
"You have an hour to get your shit and get out of here or I will call the cops"
????????????? That isn't possible!! I can't grab our things that quickly!! I get up and he runs to his room. I start packing as much as I can. He comes out and I ask, why is he saying this? No response. Just, "I'm open to communication. Get whatever you can and you can come back to work on packing whenever I say you can". Um, no. We live here. We get mail here. This is illegal. The cops will say to evict us. I've been through this with an uncle who wouldn't leave our house when my aunt broke up w him.
I tried to work this out and see why he was doing this?? He gaslit us and said he didn't plan on this long, he said months not years (he did not. He said years multiple times). He kept basically just threatening us with empty words. Obviously we were there over an hour and I had packed just about everything. My bf was moving things to his grandparents, my bfs dad was there and was going to help with moving the big things / was there to protect me if the room mate snapped. welp, his dad's wife started complaining that she was there (why did she even come?) and started saying I'm the problem and that I'm why my bf has to deal with this type of stuff. His dad also started chiming in?? I said whatever leave, they did, and I said to myself I'd rather be dead rn anyways. They agreed???!! I wasn't even TALKING TO YALL. Lots of traumatic stuff happened. Then my dog was poisoned. She started walking funny and acting super weird, so we had to stop everything and goto the emergency vet because what the HELL. Apparently she ate some Marijuana!!! We don't even HAVE ANY??? She's okay thankfully, but how would she have gotten it if he hadn't given it to her??
Idk, I just wanted to vent about this. I'm living with my grandparents and my bf is living with his. Conditions are better, it just sucks that we were gonna be out of there very soon and now we have to be separated for now.
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