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Posted in Children? Posted 7 years ago
How do you feel about children? Mostly I just feel indifferent to them. I am at jobtraining at a schoollibrary, where I also moslty dont have much to do with the kids, but when I do I tend to feel a bit awkward for some reason. Think it might just be my lack of selfesteem that bothers me there.
Do you intend to have any? No, not unless I find a partner I love very much that have a kid/kids, or want kids. I have always said that if I should want a kid it shoould be a partners child, or an adopted child.
Do you already have any? No, and I most likey wont ever. At least not of my own genes, as getting pregnant can litterally kill me. Thanks to me having suffered 2 strokes in the brain.


How do you feel about people who choose not to have them, or choose to have several? I dont mind people haing children, as long thy can afford the child and I feel they can take proper care of it. My own sister just a week ago told me that she is expecting a child due April, which had me in tears of joy for her sake, as she before had had 2 miscarriages/abortions ( the fosters died, but was to far evolved for the body to want to get rid of it itself, so had to go the hospital way... at least from what I understood on her. ) I'm sure she will be a great and supportive mother, as she really rally wat a kid of her own.
*suspects that paringknives are what we in Denmark call herbknives ( urteknive ) *
Valentina:

Hey, Val, I found some stuff for you!


Hope I do this allright... like middle of thee night here...I know I got knitting needles somewhere, but my mom moved my sewing items around when I was hospitalized 2 years ago, so couldnt find them. Sorry.

Anyway, ltes start out with some gloves


Hoodie ( this a cosplay one but stilll a hoodie )


yarn ( embroidery-yarn, but still yarn. I got more actual yarn, but just like my knitting needles they have vanished )

Scarf
[spoiler]


Possible wildcards
Knitted open-shirt.. Im not exactly sure what to call this type of shirt.open in front, no buttons...


Wollen autumn/wintrjacket * completl ignores that I wear it year round as its my only jacket *

and earcuffs... if thats not too winter-y

slippers
[spoiler



oh
And some yellow leaves if they are not way too late

Posted in Vontell's Chat Raffle! [Winner's Announced!] Posted 7 years ago
@totalanimefan: yes, but not enough ideas where to write or what to write. Im socially handicapped so forever think Im annoying/bugging the h**' outta people if I write in a thread, even more if it is a lot I wriite.. So I just end up as the forever lurker *facepalms *

@another movie addict: again its the insecurities that breaks in, as well as me not really knowing what I find interesting... yes I like rping but I do not trust rping with people outside of a danish forum page, or from dA groups. after certain events. >>; cant really join in on pokemon/harry potter talk ( or well I guess I can on harry potter now that I have finally rad all the books... still not seen all movies though ) I'm forever behind on things.


sorry for my rambles..
Posted in Vontell's Chat Raffle! [Winner's Announced!] Posted 7 years ago
I feel like a cheapskate for not buying al the event items but only those I think I might use on my avatar at some point. Else I would definitly be bankrupt now * glares at my few 3k volts which Is litterally the most I ever had since the day I joined and spendt all the volts on wear + hair*
Posted in October Crates and New Commons! Posted 7 years ago
Horns, wings and tails.. 3 of my favourit things on OC's 8D
Looks great,
Posted in The sanctuary Posted 7 years ago
autosave on merchant sites can be a huge pain... * casually reminded to activate my new bankcard, that looks super fancy unlike any card ever seen. *
Posted in Vontell's Chat Raffle! [Winner's Announced!] Posted 7 years ago
That was just how I felt this morning, and when i had a nap...
Posted in Vontell's Chat Raffle! [Winner's Announced!] Posted 7 years ago
or are we? xD Nah m just sitting with 3 clocks showuing 3 different times.. * have no idea which to trust as they all are digital*
Posted in Look at the new emojis! Posted 7 years ago
someone ate some of my cookie also I cant help but love the 'happy bernard' xD :bernard_happy:
Posted in Vontell's Chat Raffle! [Winner's Announced!] Posted 7 years ago
same here * just woke up from much needed nap *
Posted in The sanctuary Posted 7 years ago
could send you my 3311 volts..?
Posted in The sanctuary Posted 7 years ago
@tuijp: Wohoo.. Told you I was sure I had won * could remember that I needed that 36 from my pracicum thing though must admit I got in doubt on my way home xD And now I shall resign from the bingo-ness giving other people a chance <3 Thank you ( and making my day, if possible even better, I just rechieved my FairyLoot Lootcrate with the wonderful theme of ' all that sass ' * excited flails * :vanora_heart: )
Posted in The sanctuary Posted 7 years ago
@tuijp: hope this is allright *throw self at laptop as soon I got indoor *