Shadami's posts

I'm realllllly thankful that Voltra is actually pretty mobile friendly. I post from my phone all the time. my only thing is sometimes when i'm scrolling i'll accidentally click the report button xD lmao. but that's an easy fix with the back button.

@Totalanimefan: oh! Enjoy and sleep well then ^^

@Wildfire: i'm working on getting my three year olds bedroom painted so I can set up her own bedroom and closet and toy shelves. ect. And I think that once she's set up in there. a TON of stuff in the house that has been a disaster is going to click into place and things will get more organized.

I'm pretty sure once i push through this disaster that a huge weight is going to be removed from my shoulders.

@Wildfire: my daughters have this habit of "i have finished it. drop it on the floor" and I'm aggrivatingly trying to get that behavior removed from them because they were taught by my mother and their father that whatever i say is wrong. so if i say keeping things clean and picking up after yourself with a 15 second task will save hours later because there isn't a build up and a mental destruction by disasters.
its a daily battle right now. I'm trying really hard to get them to use the dishwasher. when i'm cooking dinner, put away the dishes. then we put our dishes right in the dishwasher.
its a start. by i'm trying to train them so they have the tools to stay mentally healthy on top of messes and it doesn't build up. and so they know how to do it themselves. and not expect others to do it for them.

Even though waaaay to many people don't know how to clean after themselves. i want to have my girls have that tool set.

oops went on a tangent. i meant to basically say i understand xD but then i got all frustration rant.

@Kory: huh.
i wonder if getting used to talking people on discord is why i'm not as active on avatar forums anymore. that's absolutely wild if that's what's going on with me too xD I hadn't thought of it like that.

@Feral: oh hey! Congrats!

@Totalanimefan: have fun with it! :D

@Valentina: i finally got one puzzle done. had to back track twice cause of updates on my computer xD

@Feral: oh gosh. me too xD and i'm almost out of water, need refill.

@Hydrangea: you're of course welcome to chat here :]

Mob psycho looked intriguing, but haven't wastched it yet

@Totalanimefan: :O oh my gosh. mine does too!

@Kory: I think Voltra is one of the most accepting places I've found . you can usually just jump right in to any conversation.
. . .
Now I'm not very good at that usually. Especially when I'm feeling down and not socially capable xD But I really like it here. and if you see me you're welcome to poke me and say hi.

I think a bunch of people got it right though :D yay everyone!
i shall be proud of myself for getting a third of it right xD