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@pixiebuns: Officially taken to PMS


@pixiebuns: He said he feels like I don't love him anymore :(
He said that he feels that I am attracted to my friend I met in math class and his nightmare was that I sent him "pics" and then he saw me take my phone into the bathroom with me and was worried thats what I was doing and it was very real for him.

I understand how he feels, I just wish he'd be closer to me and tell me how he feels in the moment and not when I have to ask him several times and get assertive for him to tell me what's going on.


@pixiebuns: Yeah I should really tell him how is actions affect me. I've told him before how ignoring me doesn't solve anything.
AT LEAST say "I'm sorry I can't talk right now, I need some space" or something.

He just read my message so we'll see if he responds with a blow up message that usually comes. He's typing I think since it shows him looking at the message (webcam thing flashing on messenger ap)

@Teemo: Omg that's hilarious


@Teemo: TEEMO?! Is that league of legends related?
Happy Halloween!


@pixiebuns: Yeah you're right. Things should be talked about and we usually don't argue that much but he contradicts himself a lot and then calls me the hypocrite. My anxiety is finally going down since I'm realizing that it's not me who should be worried, yknow? Yeah I want to work things out and talk to him and see what's going on, but to me he's just being unreasonable and hurting me.

Like that's what happened in discord the other day that made him upset. I posted a picture similar to the one's he was posting that I TOLD him I didn't like so I deleted them and told him to put them in NSFW and then he gets mad at me for being a hypocrite.

It wasn't even the same photo??

Thank you for being here <3 It's really helping me calm down. ILY


Posted in [S]Lots [B]Ohms+Nov DIs Posted 7 years ago
@Totalanimefan: Okay thank you!
I'll try to post my butt off in the mean time :vanora_xd:


@pixiebuns: Yeah you're right. I don't know if I want to live like this you know?
I hate passive aggressive bull shit. He knows I hate being left on read too, but he still does it.
I'm not good with talking about this kind of things especially since he's my first real boyfriend.

I'm at work real distracted because of this but I need to talk about it with someone or Ima go insane.


@pixiebuns: It sucks cause we've been together for a year and a half and I love him so much so its hard imagining a life without him now.
Maybe I am just overreacting and he's busy but I know that's not true cause he always replies when I get to work with at least SOMETHING.
Like if you have the time to open a message you have the time to reply with at least something.

My mom told me to make a list of positive and negative things but I dont want to have to do that...


@pixiebuns: He's 24 years old too lol
I couldn't take it. He's reading other messages in group chat and is active on FB (darn you messenger for telling me that)
so I just messaged him and said

"Okay I feel like you are upset with me and I want you to tell me what's going and to be honest"
Cause this is dumb and I hate how he doesn't care how I feel when he's upset cause the reason he is upset is more "justified" or something. That doesn't matter. No one should be feeling upset regardless of why or how much "value" it has.


Posted in [S]Lots [B]Ohms+Nov DIs Posted 7 years ago
@Totalanimefan: That sounds great thank you!
What would the grand total be?
Also I'm sorry for not being attentive at all lol


Don't forget "oh that's a guinea pig"

I'm gonna be feeling anxious all day. This sucks :/


Posted in hello! Posted 7 years ago
Hi bee! Welcome to Voltra :D
Cute stuff you got there already <3


@Taemins Lover: Oh wow! That's pretty specific!
I love ratties though cause they're super cute. I probably wouldn't be able to tell 60 different versions apart.


Posted in [S]Lots [B]Ohms+Nov DIs Posted 7 years ago
@Totalanimefan: Oh sure! That'd be lovely :D
I can't believe I missed the last event :vanora_cry: