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Posted in What even is my aesthetic? Posted 2 years ago
@Totalanimefan: Its such an existential crisis. I can't handle those at my age lol.

@sunny: I always forget pinterest exists! Its such a good tool

I'm thinking about just buying a lot of acrylic paint and/or gold foil and painting everything either dusty rose or gold... but have it be spooky creepy stuff. I've been super into that color scheme since I got pregnant (all that time ago) for some reason, might as well lean into it?
Posted in What even is my aesthetic? Posted 2 years ago
I'm excited. All of our roommates finally moved out, and I get to expand my families life into the rest of our house rather than hiding in one or two rooms. For the longest time, I just piled all of my personal belongings on my desk or in our bedroom... now we have a lot of rooms to spread out into and decorate. I even have my very own room just for art. I want to decorate, but I just realized I have no idea what my aesthetic is. I haven't had a space just for me since I was a teenager. I was super goth back then. IDK what I am now lol... goblin metal head? My dress aesthetic has always been chaotic, so I'm sure my room design will be much the same... but I don't want it to just look like a cluttered mess. Thats how our living space has been forever. I need something zen... but when I look up decorating ideas I just get white/plants/super clean and minimalistic and I'm so not all about it. I'm also not all about spending a lot of money. I want to DIY up some cool stuff.

I feel like I'm rambling! But the point of this post is... I want to see what you all do with your personal spaces. How did you find your aesthetic? What do you do to make your space your own? What inspires you decor-wise?
Posted in hellooooo! Posted 2 years ago
I missed you!!
Posted in Spotify Wrapped Posted 2 years ago
Pretty much all the darkness and hammerfall. I have no idea how to do just text so here's a link I guess:
https://open.spotify.com/wrapped-2021/share-f8b46cc997b440008c3c5fdb13b8d432-1080x1920?si=Cif2vIRBQO2NXCK8XKIQHQ&lang=en
Posted in first coffee in a week Posted 2 years ago
I was so much happier when my daughter was finally born just because I could go back to nothing but coffee all day. Being without it is the worst.
Posted in How much event currency do you have? Posted 2 years ago
None lol
Posted in Stress Hives ugg Posted 3 years ago
My go-to for stress relief is to shut myself in the bathroom with the hot water running. The water sound works as a white noise, and the steam that builds up is like a big warm hug without the complications of other people lol. Its my quick-meditation for when I can't do the real thing.
I've lost countless friends due to ignorance. Conspiracy theories, bigotry, you name it. When I say "lost" I mean yeeted from my life. I used to look past a lot of it, but when I saw how truly bad it was I had to just end my relationship with them. I was just shocked. I don't know how I talked myself into thinking these were good people. My best friend since highschool is even lost to me now. She posted some nutso anti-vax stuff, and I encouraged her to research legitimate sources, and even provided her with some. She responded by yelling at me about killing children. I told her abortion rights and vaccinations are not even the same argument, and she started ignoring the conversation entirely. That was it for me. If you can't even have a conversation, or be open to read something longer than a meme, theres probably no hope. I also feel like a friendship of like 20 years earns a bit more respect, but what do I know. Her husband is a huge bigot so I'm not even sweating the loss very much...
Posted in Autumn is almost here! :D Posted 3 years ago
I love fall but we don't get it anymore where I live. We only get two: Fire season and ice season.
Posted in Chat with a side of doodles Posted 3 years ago


@Totalanimefan: I made you one anyway. So there.

@blue: and one for you

@sunny: and one for you

@Ava: and one for you

@Ruby: and one for you too!

They were pretty quick doodles so I'm sure I forgot some of the details and my proportions are bound to be off BUT... yay free art I guess :p

@GoblinsAndTea: Thank you, thank you! I do try. How are things?

@star2000shadow: So far so good. No items yet but I'm a slacker. How do you like your item so far?
Posted in Chat with a side of doodles Posted 3 years ago
I mostly sleep with my daughter because she refuses to sleep anywhere but the couch. The second she touches her crib she has the kind of meltdown that makes her vomit from screaming too hard. I've been just sleeping with her so she doesn't fall off the couch at night. I tried sleep training, and it worked temporarily, then stopped. Kids are difficult lol.


@star2000shadow: Thank you! I identify strongly as intimidating most of the time so it works
Posted in Chat with a side of doodles Posted 3 years ago
@blue: Thanks so much!
@sunny: I had a lot of fun making it. I just tried to make an event themed one and gave up because this one is still too glorious.
@Totalanimefan: Thank you! Its the little things that make a big difference in the job of parenting lol
Posted in Chat with a side of doodles Posted 3 years ago
@Totalanimefan: I'm good! Just got my daughter to spend the night alone in her own bed for the first time, so I'm feeling like a good parent lol. Hows you?
Posted in Chat with a side of doodles Posted 3 years ago
My baby girl is asleep, there's an event, and I want to DRAW SOMETHING. Come chat with me, and I might draw your avatar. I was too busy to make anything for the event, so hopefully this will make up for it