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Posted in i know its selfish /rant Posted 5 years ago

I have been diagnosed with a couple things that I don't generally just tell people about right off the bat because they are so misunderstood and people assume things about people who have them. But I absolutely do post on my social media when I'm having an exceptionally hard time and it's never for sympathy or reactions, though some may read it that way. I share so people who feel like I do, who are too scared, or ashamed, or closed off for any reason will know that they are not alone. Because I know how it feels to think that you're alone and like no one understands and that is such a terrifyingly empty feeling. I learned how to open up in group therapy when I was held in a psych ward. I was forced to learn how to share with people and be open and accept help in the form of hearing other peoples' stories and experiences. Now all I want to do with my life is help other people know that they matter and so do their feelings and we all deal with them differently.

I do understand what you mean but just because some people cope by staying silent doesn't mean everyone does. That person who seems like they're seeking attention may really need the support they're finding.

Posted in I bought a house! Posted 5 years ago

I came here to ask if I can come over for a slumber party but uhhhh it sounds like you have enough on your plate!

I'm sorry to hear all that, it really sucks when they withhold information like that and expect you to take care of all the issues they didn't mention. I'm glad to hear it sounds like it's coming together but I'm sorry you're under so much stress during finals. :c

Hope once everything is set up and fixed that the house is everything you wanted!