@sunny: lol <3 He needs an old band tshirt or tie-dye and a lot of buttons to put on his jean jacket, but he's got a tie-dye bandana and a peace sign necklace that he can wear...

.... and that partial post was started at least an hour ago. I have no idea what else I was going to say. It's probably moot at this point anyway.

@Shadami: It's annoying isn't it?? This was one of those "everybody needs me *NOW*" things that lasted at least an hour. I still have no idea what I was going to say and I'm too tired now to go back and try to figure it all out *sigh*

I'm probably not going to be here too much longer, actually, but how are you doing today?

@Shadami: I bet it does happen a lot to you. It still happens to me and my kids are both adults now...
Of course you're still drained. It takes some time to really recover from things :3

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I'm getting super close. yay!

I yelled at him via text. Pointing out that he lied to me, and isn't being a father. cause he "can't keep them because his mother can't watch them for him"
Excuse me?
Your mother? Well if your MOTHER is the one getting time with them. YOU don't need visitation hours you nitwit. I see HER during the week and she can have wonderful time with them cause she actually wants her grandkids in her life. And I like her.
*grumbly anger* He hasn't replied since I pointed out that he's not being a father. WHich is all I said cause I'm keeping things as civil as possible because they still love him. He's their father.
But I think they're noticing that I'm doing more and more for them. ANd he's doing less and less.
ONly one of the 3 asked him to come to the tae kwon do graduation. The other two didn't ask at all.

@Shadami: Seriously, I would start a journal... it's own book, each situation dated with notes about what happened and the kids' reactions (if any). No, I definitely wouldn't slam him in front of the kids because, like you say, he is their father and they love him, and they will eventually see him for who he is without resenting you for "turning them against him", but definitely stand your ground with him. Always. And good luck. (& omg this is bringing back some of my own less-than-ideal memories/experiences).



@Lopsided Oreo: ... a stoner dog. I guess that means he's on CBD or something for anxiety...??

@Wildfire: Oh no. I'm the one who uses that for anxiety and depression. He comes running whenever he hears/smells me doing anything with it which is hilarious

@Wildfire: *stares at screen thinking*
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I'm playing minecraft? and voltra people are kind to me.

@Shadami: those are good things :3 <3

...ᘛ⁐̤ᕐᐷ ugg sometimes i wonder why i try and please people 'sigh' <:3( )~~