Questing :
Wicked
...ᘛ⁐̤ᕐᐷ @Wildfire: lol true 'nods' and i find tons of amazing pics haha.
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Questing :
Wicked
...ᘛ⁐̤ᕐᐷ @Wildfire: lol true 'nods' and i find tons of amazing pics haha.
@sunny: lol <3 He needs an old band tshirt or tie-dye and a lot of buttons to put on his jean jacket, but he's got a tie-dye bandana and a peace sign necklace that he can wear...
.... and that partial post was started at least an hour ago. I have no idea what else I was going to say. It's probably moot at this point anyway.
.... and that partial post was started at least an hour ago. I have no idea what else I was going to say. It's probably moot at this point anyway.
@Wildfire: xD i hate when i start a post and get distracted and look back at it and go "what was i even talking about??"
@Shadami: It's annoying isn't it?? This was one of those "everybody needs me *NOW*" things that lasted at least an hour. I still have no idea what I was going to say and I'm too tired now to go back and try to figure it all out *sigh*
I'm probably not going to be here too much longer, actually, but how are you doing today?
I'm probably not going to be here too much longer, actually, but how are you doing today?
@Wildfire: It really is. And i completely understand cause it happens alot to me.
I'm doing alright. I'm feeling super drained still, but working on coming out of it.
@Shadami: I bet it does happen a lot to you. It still happens to me and my kids are both adults now...
Of course you're still drained. It takes some time to really recover from things :3
Of course you're still drained. It takes some time to really recover from things :3
@Wildfire: yeah. they're at their fathers today. but... apparently only for 4 hours because he changed the plans on me without a word about it until i woke up and my brother and greeted his aenabvne face and got the girls to the car to go with their father. instead of the 10 we'd agreed on
*deep breaths*
I'm fine.
@Shadami: That sucks. You do realize that this is his attempt at control and manipulation (and you can probably use it against him in court - especially if things escalate), right? If I were you, I'd start keeping a log of these things... but that might just be me. I'm sorry you're having to deal with that kind of a$$hole behavior :3
I yelled at him via text. Pointing out that he lied to me, and isn't being a father. cause he "can't keep them because his mother can't watch them for him"
Excuse me?
Your mother? Well if your MOTHER is the one getting time with them. YOU don't need visitation hours you nitwit. I see HER during the week and she can have wonderful time with them cause she actually wants her grandkids in her life. And I like her.
*grumbly anger* He hasn't replied since I pointed out that he's not being a father. WHich is all I said cause I'm keeping things as civil as possible because they still love him. He's their father.
But I think they're noticing that I'm doing more and more for them. ANd he's doing less and less.
ONly one of the 3 asked him to come to the tae kwon do graduation. The other two didn't ask at all.
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@Shadami: Seriously, I would start a journal... it's own book, each situation dated with notes about what happened and the kids' reactions (if any). No, I definitely wouldn't slam him in front of the kids because, like you say, he is their father and they love him, and they will eventually see him for who he is without resenting you for "turning them against him", but definitely stand your ground with him. Always. And good luck. (& omg this is bringing back some of my own less-than-ideal memories/experiences).
@Lopsided Oreo: ... a stoner dog. I guess that means he's on CBD or something for anxiety...??
@Lopsided Oreo: ... a stoner dog. I guess that means he's on CBD or something for anxiety...??
@Wildfire: I just want this all over with .
But yes. i really should. I just usually don't have the energy for it when the things happen. its so exhausting to deal with him. and I'm sorry. No more talks about it right now cause don't need to bring up memories :Ohttps://www.youtube.com/c/RetroComputersandGaming
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8/1/2022
8/1/2022
I just want friends please.
@Shadami: Yeah, I get how exhausting it is, but it's probably worth your making notes ... just in case. I'm sorry. :(
So what's going well for you today?
@Lopsided Oreo: Aaaaaah...gotcha!! That sounds pretty amusing!! :3
So what's going well for you today?
@Lopsided Oreo: Aaaaaah...gotcha!! That sounds pretty amusing!! :3
@Wildfire: *stares at screen thinking*
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I'm playing minecraft? and voltra people are kind to me.
@Shadami: those are good things :3 <3
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@Wildfire: It was hard to think of xD i'm in a horrible mopey mood today.
Currently recovering from large amounts of PTSD. I'll post when I can, please ping for replies. Things are very difficult for me right now.
Questing :
Demonic
...ᘛ⁐̤ᕐᐷ ugg sometimes i wonder why i try and please people 'sigh' <:3( )~~
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Having you as a Voltie would be awesome.