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Voltie — Sha/female Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 04:57:05 )






Don't want you getting in trouble. :)

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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 12:43:59 )
@Lopsided Oreo: lol - yeah, I appreciate that... both the understanding about timing and the reminder! XD






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Voltie — She He It Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 13:33:19 )
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@Shadami: Oooh well whoops. Now I know.

@aerla: My mama was my best friend truthfully, so I would of walked through hell fire just for her.

@wildfire: Again, everyone has a life. It's rude to assume that someone else has the same type of life as you do. Besides, assuming makes an a** out of you and me and I am no a**
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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 14:14:28 )
@Lopsided Oreo: It's amazing to me how many people seem to forget that... or that everyone has their own experiences that influence their perspective on a given topic. A lot of people can't seem to get out of their own heads, imo, so it's refreshing to find others who understand this basic fact of life. :3 <3






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┤▒├ Hangout with me! ┤▒├

Voltie — She He It Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 14:24:32 )
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@Wildfire: Those people just don't want to understand that when one gets busy it's just the way of real life.
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Voltie — Sha/female Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 14:49:23 )






sorta on topic...
i was talking to a therapist and they didn't seem to understand that i can't just put everything aside to focus on oly one thing until its done.
like...
I have to take care of kids, keep the house clean, take care of busses, and parent teacher calls, and meal times, try to get a job, ect.
it was kind of an awful phone call that made me feel worse :/

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Voltie — She He It Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 14:55:12 )
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@Shadami: To me it sounds like that therapist doesn't fully understand the whole, you know, being a parent thing and if they are parents themselves... they're being a shitty therapist in my opinion.
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Voltie — Sha/female Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 14:58:46 )






@Lopsided Oreo: she specifically brought up her kids later in the conversation :[ i'd been ready to give her the benefit of doubt that she didn't understand parenting, until that moment.
and she was specifically "the advice on driving i used to give my kids" ... i'm like.. no... we're hitting a generation gap here lady. you're helpfulness may have just gone out.

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Voltie — She He It Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 15:02:03 )
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@Shadami: yeah she just sounds like a crappy therapist because you don't, ever, compare your own situation with another person because the situation is always different. Honestly, if I were you, I would straight up find a new therapist.
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Voltie — Sha/female Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 15:04:02 )






@Lopsided Oreo: i really wish i could. sadly, this is where i got sent by insurance.

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Voltie — She He It Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 15:09:43 )
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@Shadami: My insurance sent me to a horrible therapist until I looked up therapists that took my insurance. Like the horrible therapist they sent me to didn't understand nor did he even attempt to help me. My new one, he works for me so much better and I have noticed, with his help (and my medications lol,) I'm doing better then I was with the horrible therapist. So, why not try google searching for someone who takes your insurance and if they take new patients?
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Voltie — Sha/female Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 15:16:37 )






@Lopsided Oreo: welllll. part of the reason i even have a therapist is because my social anxiety is at an all time high, and my ability to cope with things is at a low.i don't like driving, and phone calls make me panic xD

i've never been able to find a good therapist and so i've been trying to stick this one out because its obvious she's trying to help. sometimes things just... aren't helpful. she doesn't get something. its hard to explain. but yeah. i with i could find someone that actually helps.
I don't know how to find them and i feel bad backing out of every therapist i've had

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Voltie — She He It Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 15:31:52 )
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@Shadami: I completely understand the whole wanting to stick it out. However if you feel the therapist isn't helping more often then she is helping then I feel like it might be time for you to find a new one. As for making the phone calls and what not, if you got a partner ask them to help?
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Donator — She/her Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 17:30:06 )


Hi all. I'm around for a little while. I'm going on a river boat cruise tonight for a friend's birthday party. I hope it won't be too cold lol

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Donator Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 19:10:09 )
    Hey everyone, I’ve been travelling to day so not online!!

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Donator Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 19:10:33 )
    @Totalanimefan: that sounds fun! I hope you have a good time.

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Voltie — Sha/female Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 19:18:43 )






@Lopsided Oreo: actually I'm a single mom in ny state and my boyfriend/soulmate lives in canada . And my ex husband is a *censored*

Oh and not offended or upset or anything :o just providing information ^^
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Currently recovering from large amounts of PTSD. I'll post when I can, please ping for replies. Things are very difficult for me right now.

Voltie — She He It Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 19:21:21 )
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@Shadami: Well... technically you have someone who could call for you. Your partner in Canada. Also, if you don't mind me asking... where in NY?
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Donator — She/her Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 21:04:51 )


@sunny: Thanks! I hope that it's a lot of fun too. I've never done it before here. I did go to one like 10 years ago in NYC. Hope it wasn't too much of a pain to travel today.

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Voltie Posted 2 years ago ( 2022/10/14 21:33:04 )
mmmmm pizza
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please ping me for the love of god.

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