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By the time I read the pings and have read through all the board, I've completely forgotten every conversation I was having. :')

@Panda: Good luck!! There'll be hundreds more posts for you to come back to~
RIP the thread is moving too fast to keep up with again. :')
Incorrect, everyone in this thread is a huge nerd. <3
@Panda: Hey!! Oh gosh good luck! People who can do eyedrops and things like contact lenses are to be admired.

@RainbowPanda: Not American. ;D

@Alia Starchild: Ooh wow, that's definitely not what I was imaging. o:
I'll have to try and seek some out in like... Halloween sale shops when I'm in America in December. :')

@Bammy: Whoo good job! See you soon!

@okios: omg wow... I'm still working towards my second set. :')
Slowly........
@RainbowPanda: Hi! :D
I like your candy corn friend, even if I'm still not 100% sure what candy corn IS.

@okios: Hi!! How's it going? ^^

@Bammy: Work bammy work!! I believe in you!
You can talk about how great you were at your work afterwards. ^^
Hiya everyone~ <3

@superbearwars: im love u
@Alia Starchild: Zero IS the roundest number. :D
@RainbowPanda: wow NICE congrats!

I've made it to exactly 0 before. :')
@Lithinel: Gosh I've never seen anything so relatable, snacks for lunch are so easy. :')
And hey, better than nothing!
@RainbowPanda: Welcome baaack! <3

@Demonicgaara: & hey welcome to the thread!
This is definitely the best place for volts. ^^
@superbearwars: Super internal internal bleeding. :')
Posted in Being Bi/gay Posted 7 years ago
@gayspacetrash:
I think it's totally okay to never be 100% sure in your sexuality. <3

Society absolutely raises us to think of being straight as the norm, and it's always like - how can I know that what I'm feeling for a girl is real?

I've liked girls forever, but it wasn't until I was 15/16 when I realised it was maybe in a gay way. :')
I kind of tried to ignore it for a while, because I didn't like my female friends that way and didn't want them to be weirded out and think I did, and I'd only dated guys that I didn't really like before, so I'd gotten it into my head that that was what all relationships were like, and I didn't want that. (spoiler: it's totally not)

I've accepted it so much more over the last few years, and started to tell people, but it wasn't until I started dating my current girlfriend that I was certain it was real. Like, wow. This is what dating someone you really like feels like.

I still have moments where I'm like... okay but am I sure I'm not pretending to like girls? And I think that's okay, I think that's something a lot of people go through. Having doubts in yourself doesn't make your identity any less valid.

Just be assured that it's normal, and the way you're feeling is totally okay. <3
@Alia starchild: <3 <3 ily pan people

@superbearwars: I am physically in pain over the little content.......... </3
/can't relate to any of this