Squishy Sloth's posts

im a trans guy!! so around 12 or 13 i realised that i wasnt just a 'tomboy' and that it was something deeper, but i didnt understand what it was until i was told about 'genderfluid' and 'nonbinary', which is when i started trying to discover who i was. naturally i went through a few phases of names, i identified as genderfluid at one point, and also went by the name 'cody' for like a month until i was like NAH SON and thankfully scrapped that name idea (thank god)

from around age 13 to 17 i didnt really know what i was, i just knew i wasnt cis. in 2016 though, i joined a game where you can make your avatar look however you want, and because i was trying to figure myself out, i made it male. people were referring to me as a male and it felt right, whereas when people referred to me as 'she/her' it made me uncomfortable and i didnt feel as if it fit me as much as 'he/him' does. thats when i realised that i was born in the wrong body, and that i am transgender. thats also when i chose the name Kai too!

i havent come out as trans to my parents yet, but i do plan on it hopefully this year (gonna get my hair cut first, its VERY long rn
i've come out to a few friends and they've taken it well, an ex-friend irl did try and out me to my college friends though (hence the ex part)

im also gay! go figure
theres not really a story to this, but when i was a confused mess i did wonder if i was a lesbian or bi, hint: im not. i also wondered if i was a straight guy? hint: also not. i dated girls but it just didnt work, girls are pretty, im just not attracted to them. around 2018ish i realised that i am a big gay and i really like guys LMAO
ps i wasnt sure which variant of the flag to use there are so many