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@vengeance: Okay.

How are you feeling today?
@vengeance: Thank you! Are they okay with me drinking out of them? Will they die?
Posted in Rain and storm Posted 5 years ago
I love to read, play a horror game, and make tea when it's raining.

A Harry Potter marathon would be nice! Do you know what house you're in?
Hello, I'd like a green tea, please!
@Harker: Metal music can be relaxing! I hope your cut heals soon so you can relax as much as possible. Your brother is also being a butthead.
Posted in What are you hungry for right now? Posted 5 years ago
@LittleSnail: I don't think I've had garlic fries. I tend to avoid potato things like fries because they make me sleepy.
Posted in What are you hungry for right now? Posted 5 years ago
@Tuijp: Ah yes, I love red unions. The workers will seize the means of production!

@SirLionelNigelConrad: My specialty is tea... specialtea.

@Mousy: Ooo I've never taken advantage of a national food holiday. I really should.

@Kitalpha Hart: I always think I don't care for garlic bread. And then I eat it.

@LordLucre: Talenti Mediterranean Mint gelato is so gooooooooooooooooooood.

@Glume: Coffee sounds lovely right now. I'm currently drinking iced tea.

@Bioshock: Unfortunately we don't really have good Chinese takeout options here.

@Totalanimefan: You're a pizza.

@Rubix: Sushi and sake is always a good combination.
Posted in ...Uh, hi. Posted 5 years ago
Welcome! That avatar is stylish af.
Posted in So mom and I bought red grapes earlier Posted 5 years ago
I hope he was grapeful for those grapes.
Posted in What are you hungry for right now? Posted 5 years ago
There are some meatless meatballs in the freezer... veggieballs? and I feel like throwing them into some spicy tomato sauce.
@Harker: Do you like to listen to music or ASMR to help you relax? What soothes you?
Posted in HUUUMMMM. Posted 5 years ago
At this point, I would just rip it off like a bandaid and say "we're done" and leave it at that. Blaming your mental illnesses for your perfectly valid feelings is a gaslighting tactic and it's dangerous.

nyreen:
I'm trying to be firm but it's like a joke or they just think that I'm overloaded with stress and using them as an outlet or I'm anxious or whatever so I don't really know what I want or what I'm saying lol. I'm just so exhausted.


I've been in a similar situation and they're not going to listen to you. You're going to have to be firm and tell them that you're done and it's over. Don't leave any room for discussion because they're going to take any opportunity to tell you that your feelings are invalid and make you second guess yourself. Your happiness and wellbeing are much too important.
Posted in What's your favourite pastry? Posted 5 years ago
I love fruit tarts and chocolate filled croissants/cornets.

I love pastries in general but I don't like it when they're too sweet.
Posted in *rolls in* Posted 5 years ago
Welcome! Your username is familiar to me somehow.