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Aannnnd I feel unmotivated to do so. Damn it.

But the question is would I be easily worn out? 'cause I've been getting a lot of worn out and somewhat feeling down lately.

I should start drawing a few bust and knee up artwork examples first. That is before drawing full body artwork examples. (Maybe at least 5 art samples)

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@kory: Oof. The so-called parents having kids to turn them into their slaves then making them do all the work and not even bothering to give them freedom or having fun (ex: good childhood, etc.) like every other children is just really depressing and frustrating, then there are some "parents" think they have the rights to manipulate or indoctrinate their own children and decide to live through their children's lives (A big example would be those.... Blegh!... child "beauty paegants"... Eugh) that they (parents) didn't have as children. And when their children reaches early 20s and starts to feel helpless all because of the way their parents treated them as kids.

I see, at least your mom did learned a lot from her mistakes and trying her best to be a good parent. (sorry if I'm not very good at words) And I agree with you, everyone knows the whole world can be cruel but that's not the case as parents can't just keep sugarcoating them no matter how old their children are (even if you are an adult, you are still a child from the perspective of your parents regardless of age). And yes, teach them how to make smart decisions so they will decide on their own once they reach at the age 20 or early 20s to be specific.

Mmhmm. *nods* #LetChildrenHaveChoices

@kory: 100% agreed. I hate it when parents think they can control their own children or have the audacity to say something like how they don't deserve to have privacy and all. And yes, definately agree with you about children needing to be nurtured and support! There are good parents out there supporting their children, there are bad parents who don't deserve to be called parents and have kids in the first place if they're not willing to nurture/support their own children.

Yep! At least it's better than their parents naming them without choice of their own.

@kory: Mmhmm. True. This is why doing research on names is a better way before naming their own children. And yep, what if their adult children don't like the name even if their parents liked it? lol

Yes, normalize children picking their own names or that alternative you mentioned above as well ^^ Haha true, at least no one will be stressed out or disappointed in the end. c:

No problem. ;3

@kory: Yeah, that really sucks tbh. Even names like Shirley or Leslie which are also historically masculine sound "feminine" nowadays and yes, you're right *nods in agreement* Most people don't even realise when their children grow up into a young adult and wanted to change their name legally by choice. Though some parents might try to control their kids' naming even if the kids hate the name their parents given them since they were newborns. And true, there's a difference between naming your children and naming your pets. The latter is well, since they're pets as in domestic animals they wouldn't care as long they have a name but the former is when parents name their kids after (or before) they were born, the name will get stuck with them for the rest of their lives 'til death (unless their children want to change their name legally but that needs a lot of resources and paperwork to do so).

Ooh, that is definately a very nifty idea in my opinion! :D At least the child will be able to choose a name (as you have mentioned above) they feel like it's the best for themself rather than having a name given by their parents. That way the child will be satisfied by their (not parents) choice of choosing a name.

I see. :o As long as you're happy that is ^^

@kory: True, it definately didn't feel creative when everyone does it as soon as they heard a girl with a gender neutral/masculine name. People think it's "cool, trendy or edgy" when girls have a gender neutral/masculine name but they hate it when it comes to a boy with a gender neutral name (or a "feminine" name that used to be masculine years ago) because they think boys shouldn't have gender netural names. (ノಠ益ಠ)ノ And yeah, people should take their time before naming their kids.

Letting their children picking their names sounds like a better choice. And... wow lol. That's very unusual but interesting regardless, I think there are some people name their children with very unusual names or after fictional characters but that's the minority. (Correct me if I'm wrong)

Oh, that's really interesting and cool! You should use your old username for your OC (if they're still unnamed) :o

@kory: Ooh I see. And I agree with you, I hate it too when names that were gender neutral/masculine back then are now considered a "girl's name" despite the names' origin/history. It does annoys me when people don't do their research on those names before spouting nonsense, and I really wish gender neutral names are for everyone of all genders, not just for girls.

Sort of unrelated but there are times where I do give my OCs with gender neutral names whether they're a guy, girl or etc. and if the name suits them or their personality.

@whimsy: Same. *nods in agreement*