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Posted in Marie Kondo is ruining my life. Posted 5 years ago

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Hmm, yes....when I saw this was on Netflix I added it to my ever growing watch list. I haven't taken the dive with the show yet tho. I figured I would try and clean along as I watched in the morning so wish me luck with that~

Did you all know that there is also a manga, in case you can't stomach the book. I haven't gotten it just yet tho, but Here

Posted in Chat with Sae Posted 5 years ago

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@Saeyra: I have heard about that one, it looked like it was going to be good...but with life happening I forgot to watch it. Not sure if I can take being hit in the feels right now tho XD. Did you like it over all tho? How did you watch it?

Posted in ☾ val's ✧ dream ☽ Posted 5 years ago

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Greetings, and good luck questing Val!
I am presuming you are a Moonie, maybe we can talk about that sometime!
Posted in Chat with Sae Posted 5 years ago

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🎉🎊🎉Happy Birthday!!🎉🎊🎉

What cartoons are we watching?
*brings beanbag chair, snacks and a blanket*
I hope you get well soon, do you need soup?
Posted in Hey Cutie Posted 5 years ago

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Piddling about in Animal Crossing I should be harvesting fruits and all....but....
Posted in beef or chicken? Posted 5 years ago

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Chicken....unless I want that really full feeling.
Posted in Turtle Sensei's Pond - A Hangout Thread Posted 5 years ago

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@Mermicorn: Thanks very much I am sure that I will~ Gonna pop by your charity thread and peak about tomorrow!
For now I am going to turn in, you two have a great time online~
Posted in Turtle Sensei's Pond - A Hangout Thread Posted 5 years ago

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@Mermicorn: Ah ok, I was wondering what to do about that. Startled me a little. Thanks for the gift!
Posted in Better Sibling Interactions Posted 5 years ago

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@Turtle sensei: Aww, thanks that is nice of you to say. It means a lot too...so thanks
Posted in Turtle Sensei's Pond - A Hangout Thread Posted 5 years ago

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@turtle sensei: Hello there~ came to say that I love your avi, and is that coffee you are holding a common item?
Posted in Better Sibling Interactions Posted 5 years ago

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@Saeyra: We have talked about it before, it does seem to help...but I think consistent reminders may also assist her with how she decides to talk to the youngest. Lately she has been making an effort to tell her that she loves her...but I don't really know if it helps. I mean it is nice for her to do that but at the same time I don't want the youngest to think that it excuses her harsh language. I will try talking with both as you said keeping the things you mentioned in mind.

@Turtle Sensei: Honestly I think it could be a lot of different things. I did have a talk with her about it and it turned out she was avoiding it out of fear of failing the assignment. I think I have to talk to her about that....but I am not sure how just yet. I don't want her scared to fail, but at the same time I don't want her unwilling to try her best. As for the ADHD, she is normal was screened some time ago.

As for the middle one, stressed a little yea, cynical...very likely. Not depressed at the moment, we have talked about that. I will try and mediate with her more tho.
Posted in Better Sibling Interactions Posted 5 years ago

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@sirlionelnigelconrad: I think this is a conversation I will have to save for when things are a little less hectic. I will bring it up tho and thanks for your input as well. This isn't something that Mother hasn't noticed....but the conversations tend to only crawl along....not sure how to get them progressing past the typical results.

@Saeyra: This is something we do, but I feel like perhaps we need a few more things we can bond over as a group of three. I can cook with either of them, but both of them in the kitchen with me tends to end with the youngest feeling bad. It is like no matter what we do as a trio eventually the middle one will do or say something to kill the vibe. I can bond with them one on one just fine most of the time. I feel like the buffer in between them really XD.
Posted in Better Sibling Interactions Posted 5 years ago

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Basically looking for advice

I am the eldest of 3 girls, and interactions like

When helping my youngest sister with her homework, distractions abound, she will tip off and not be back for 10 minute stints at a time if not more if I don't seek her out and remind her of the task at hand. She is 8 smart and lazy, she will ask for help when it isn't truly required....I am not sure if it is a bid to spend time with me or what. But anyway today was a bit of a challenge with her being extra dramatic about the smallest of injuries, and distractions, and mysterious disappearances. Between reminding her of her homework and her getting pouty and overly dramatic when I corrected her our middle sister chimed in "Just let her fail, you've told her twenty times to do her homework, she isn't going to do it on the twenty-first time. Just let her fail, and mom will yell at her cause she obviously doesn't care about her homework." She said this after hearing one of our squabbles.
are fairly common she tends to come off as prickly to our youngest sister...I mean I have caught her saying that she is mean to her and she doesn't like the way she treats her, or that she hates her. In all honesty I am not sure that I would be good friends with her if we weren't related. I am not really sure what I can do to help them get along better. The middle one has little patience for the youngest, she can take a type of tone with her too. I am just at my wits end as to what to do about them. I know I can't force it but there has to be something to take off the middle ones edge.

Posted in Yall I still have unwanted items!! Posted 5 years ago

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Thank you very very much for the trade.